I voluntarily submitted this review after reading an advanced copy of this book. To find another person for yourself after loving and loosing someone, whether through death, breakup or divorce, you have to do it on your own terms. Although, friends believe encouragement and blind dates are attempts to find you a partner, often, they are disasters that are embarrassing to the couple concerned. It is hard to have some well meaning people to back off and allow fate to take control. This is one couples response to an attempt to matchmake. It has an interesting outcome.