I have been slowly absorbing and trying out the ideas presented in the book. I have been forcing myself to use new forms of words with a different intent behind them. After less than a month it is making a big difference. "and what would this mean for you" is a remarkable question, and I have now experienced why. It was quite disorienting to find how quickly my coaching improved. Part of me was holding onto the idea that the "old me" was quite good at this stuff..... my improved effectiveness has helped me let that old self go. Have fun. David.