This helps me better understand the complexity of the introvert in a western world that hails as the preferred way of seeing the world is as an extrovert yet what is lost to the masses finds a place worth visiting and staying with - to find better understanding and so relish what incredible value and place the introverts way of seeing the world does bring a sweetness oft ignored. I feel a greater affinity to and deepened awareness, understanding. for and greater love for my husband of over 26 years. . This book has been like a mirror into the essence of the introvert. Thanks so much for bringing to the world a whole new lens to understand difference, similarity and distinctiveness between introverts and extroverts. Sobering, satisfying and scholarly reading.