$20.75 + FREE Delivery
In stock.
Ships from and sold by Ria_Christie_Collections.
$20.75 + FREE Delivery
Other Sellers on Amazon
Add to Cart
& Free Delivery on eligible orders See details and conditions
Sold by: Amazon AU
Add to Cart
+ $11.18 Delivery
Sold by: Amazon US
Flip to back Flip to front
Listen Playing... Paused   You're listening to a sample of the Audible audio edition.
Learn more
See all 2 images

I Wrote This Book Because I Love You: Essays Paperback – 1 Mar 2019

See all 5 formats and editions Hide other formats and editions
Amazon Price
New from Used from
click to open popover

Product details

  • Paperback: 224 pages
  • Publisher: Simon & Schuster; Reprint edition (1 March 2019)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1476739013
  • ISBN-13: 978-1476739014
  • Product Dimensions: 14 x 1.5 x 21.3 cm
  • Boxed-product Weight: 181 g
  • Average Customer Review: Be the first to review this item
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: 122,765 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

Product description


"Tim Kreider's voice is never anything less than honest, smart, and hilarious; in I Wrote This Book Because I Love You he is even more mordant and empathetic than ever before. What a sad and beautiful book." (Lauren Groff author of Fates and Furies)

"Tim Kreider's wonderfully frank, consistently funny essays reminded me at a time of spectacular doubt that there might still be a few men in America who are both weird and wise, equally friendly to cats and ex-girlfriends, and refreshingly willing to admit to flaws that come entirely free of vindictiveness and cruelty. In an age of widespread buffoonery, it's a pleasure and a relief to have Kreider restore a little faith." (Joshua Ferris author of The Dinner Party and Other Stories)

"Tim Kreider is one of my favorite living writers, no exaggeration...His wisdom is counterintuitive and therefore all the wiser; his humor is dark in ways that let light in where it's needed most. This isn't a book about one man's relationship to women as much as it's a chart of the collision course of human need in all its wrenching, perverse, gorgeous, hilarious forms. It's his best stuff yet." (Meghan Daum author of The Unspeakable: And Other Subjects of Discussion)

"Tim Kreider's writing is heartbreaking, brutal and hilarious—usually at the same time. He can do in a few pages what I need several hours of screen time and tens of millions to accomplish. And he does it better. Come to think of it, I'd rather not do a blurb. I am beginning to feel bad about myself." (Judd Apatow)

“Kreider rules.” (David Foster Wallace)

"[Kreider's] essays are beautifully written, with just enough humor to balance his spikiness, and will please lovers of fine writing.”


"Kreider... writes like a smart, funny friend; his essays feel like late-night conversations that you don’t want to end."

  (The Seattle Times)

"Kreider isn’t solely a humorist; he’s also part philosopher, part psychologist, part poet. Paired with his depth of insight into the human condition and startlingly sharp observations, this intimate collection is as hilarious as it is poignant, as it explores what it means to love and be loved—even if it’s love shared with your 19-year-old cat. "

  (Baltimore Magazine)

"Kreider is...an inimitable American essayist. He reliably, intelligently, wittily states the hesitated-over, the unspoken, the perhaps, the after-last-call-drunken-theory-of-the-universe that actually might have been brilliant...His ideas are sometimes risky or incomplete, but I’ve almost never encountered them anywhere else; in style, he sits on the shelf between the quick humor of Dave Barry and the gentle, erudite persuasion of Virginia Woolf. When reading Tim Kreider, I feel as if he’s stated what’s already in my mind." (Another Chicago Magazine)

"Much of the collection's strength comes from wry ruminations on his non-romantic relationships...Kreider's observations cut deep, sharply delivered in the midst of what he might sometimes call 'mush.' It's no surprise that David Foster Wallace declared, 'Kreider rules,' or that Kreider counts Richard Russo and Judd Apatow as fans. His precision and candor coexist like a just-sharpened razor slicing into soft fruit, sweet, lovely, messy and sustaining."

  (Shelf Awareness)

About the Author

Tim Kreider has written for The New York TimesThe New YorkerThe WeekThe Men’s Journal, and Nerve.com. His popular comic strip, The Pain—When Will It End?, ran in alternative weeklies for twelve years and has been collected in three books by Fantagraphics. He is the author of two collections of essays, We Learn Nothing and I Wrote This Book Because I Love You. He divides his time between New York City and an undisclosed location on the Chesapeake Bay.

No customer reviews

Review this product

Share your thoughts with other customers

Most helpful customer reviews on Amazon.com

Amazon.com: 4.2 out of 5 stars 38 reviews
5.0 out of 5 starsA book you'll want to read and reread over the years
2 March 2018 - Published on Amazon.com
Verified Purchase
10 people found this helpful.
Stacy Reno
5.0 out of 5 starsWhat a beautiful book. I took it camping & found myself ...
25 May 2018 - Published on Amazon.com
Verified Purchase
7 people found this helpful.
ocd survivor
5.0 out of 5 starsDeeply thoughtful and entertaining
14 May 2018 - Published on Amazon.com
Verified Purchase
6 people found this helpful.
4.0 out of 5 starsQuirky and Fun
4 April 2018 - Published on Amazon.com
Verified Purchase
4 people found this helpful.
4.0 out of 5 starsit's been a delight for the most part
29 March 2018 - Published on Amazon.com
Verified Purchase
2 people found this helpful.