I read this book looking for any help/advice I could get for my marriage. My husband is a great man, I'm the one having a little trouble with the whole marriage thing. Ive read 3 books so far and I really liked this book. The tips in this book are great. There are some tips that are unrealistic for my marriage, but great tips none the less. Ive been using some of the tips since I read the book. The tips are helping us. I recommend this book to any couples who are having problems or fear problems are soon to start. This is not a quick fix book, it gives tips to help. It takes two and work from both partners to make a relationship work.