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Swirling: How to Date, Mate, and Relate Mixing Race, Culture, and Creed Kindle Edition
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Christelyn D. Karazin
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"Couldn't come at a better time. --Lecia J. Brooks Director, Civil Rights Memorial Center, Southern Poverty Law Center
This book is critically important in our time to help foster a more open dialogue about interracial dating & marriages. I enjoyed it thoroughly and I highly recommend it to everyone. What a great read! --Sophia A. Nelson, award winning Author & columnist for NBC's theGrio.com & Essence Magazine
What an important and timely topic! Karazin and Littlejohn's warm conversational style sets the perfect tone for women in interracial and intercultural relationships who are seeking practical advice and support. --Linda R. Young, PhD, psychologist and blogger for Psychology Today
"After nearly 20 years in an interracial marriage, the one thing I've learned is that black folks often have more hang-ups about these kinds of relationships than anyone else. And if anyone can help us all sort through the nonsense, problems and preconceptions, it is Janice Rhoshalle Littlejohn, one of the smartest, most empathetic writers I know. I only hope she starts on a book for black men next!" --Eric Deggans, TV/Media Critic, St. Petersburg Times
"A breath of fresh air." --Cherilyn "CW" Smith, popular blogger and author of Black Women Deserve Better
"A welcome, heart-felt primer on what African-American women can and should do better prepare themselves for the challenges, frustrations as well as the possibilities and hopes in the turbulent world of relationships. It's a book whose time has more than come." --Earl Ofari Hutchinson, Nationally syndicated columnist, author and social commentator
"Janice Rhoshalle Littlejohn and Christelyn D. Karazin bring a refreshing perspective to this hotly debated and newsworthy topic -- they also have the journalistic mettle and personal experience and humor to pull off a book that is both entertaining and informational . . . . a must-read." --Brian Lowry, Variety Chief Television Critic
"This surprising and oh-so-timely book should be considered essential reading for any woman who feels rudderless when it comes to finding a soul mate . . . . smartly researched and eye-opening." --John Griffiths, Us Weekly Television Critic
"Wisely written . . . . smart, conversational and honest." --Mekeisha Madden Toby, The Detroit News
In Swirling, Christelyn Karazin and Janice Littlejohn perform a vital service. Their insightful discussion is both in your face and disarming. A much needed contribution to our national conversation about race and relationships. --Ralph Richard Banks, Jackson Eli Reynolds Professor of Law at Stanford Law School and the author of Is Marriage for White People? How the African American Marriage Decline Affects Everyone --This text refers to the paperback edition.
This book is critically important in our time to help foster a more open dialogue about interracial dating & marriages. I enjoyed it thoroughly and I highly recommend it to everyone. What a great read! --Sophia A. Nelson, award winning Author & columnist for NBC's theGrio.com & Essence Magazine
What an important and timely topic! Karazin and Littlejohn's warm conversational style sets the perfect tone for women in interracial and intercultural relationships who are seeking practical advice and support. --Linda R. Young, PhD, psychologist and blogger for Psychology Today
"After nearly 20 years in an interracial marriage, the one thing I've learned is that black folks often have more hang-ups about these kinds of relationships than anyone else. And if anyone can help us all sort through the nonsense, problems and preconceptions, it is Janice Rhoshalle Littlejohn, one of the smartest, most empathetic writers I know. I only hope she starts on a book for black men next!" --Eric Deggans, TV/Media Critic, St. Petersburg Times
"A breath of fresh air." --Cherilyn "CW" Smith, popular blogger and author of Black Women Deserve Better
"A welcome, heart-felt primer on what African-American women can and should do better prepare themselves for the challenges, frustrations as well as the possibilities and hopes in the turbulent world of relationships. It's a book whose time has more than come." --Earl Ofari Hutchinson, Nationally syndicated columnist, author and social commentator
"Janice Rhoshalle Littlejohn and Christelyn D. Karazin bring a refreshing perspective to this hotly debated and newsworthy topic -- they also have the journalistic mettle and personal experience and humor to pull off a book that is both entertaining and informational . . . . a must-read." --Brian Lowry, Variety Chief Television Critic
"This surprising and oh-so-timely book should be considered essential reading for any woman who feels rudderless when it comes to finding a soul mate . . . . smartly researched and eye-opening." --John Griffiths, Us Weekly Television Critic
"Wisely written . . . . smart, conversational and honest." --Mekeisha Madden Toby, The Detroit News
In Swirling, Christelyn Karazin and Janice Littlejohn perform a vital service. Their insightful discussion is both in your face and disarming. A much needed contribution to our national conversation about race and relationships. --Ralph Richard Banks, Jackson Eli Reynolds Professor of Law at Stanford Law School and the author of Is Marriage for White People? How the African American Marriage Decline Affects Everyone --This text refers to the paperback edition.
About the Author
Christelyn D. Karazin is a columnist for Madame Noir and a health, lifestyle, business, and education writer for such high-profile publications as Woman's Day, Better Homes & Gardens, and many more. She lives in California and runs the popular blog BeyondBlackWhite.com.
Janice Rhoshalle Littlejohn has had a diverse twenty-year career as a journalist. Her work has appeared in publications including Associated Press, USA Today, Essence, Vibe and more. She lives in Los Angeles. --This text refers to the paperback edition.
Janice Rhoshalle Littlejohn has had a diverse twenty-year career as a journalist. Her work has appeared in publications including Associated Press, USA Today, Essence, Vibe and more. She lives in Los Angeles. --This text refers to the paperback edition.
Product details
- ASIN : B005GG0LXE
- Publisher : Atria Books (15 May 2012)
- Language : English
- File size : 3772 KB
- Text-to-Speech : Enabled
- Screen Reader : Supported
- Enhanced typesetting : Enabled
- X-Ray : Not Enabled
- Word Wise : Enabled
- Print length : 274 pages
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RP Kirya
3.0 out of 5 stars
More statistical and evidence based than relationship based
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 12 July 2013Verified Purchase
Having read the blog 'Beyond Black & White' I didn't find there was much left in this book to consider eye-opening.i thought there would be more in depth relationship advice in dating someone of another culture, for example how your packaging can impact their perception of you, how and when to bring up the 'this is not my real hair' talk, how to maintain your confidence in a foreign culture especially when you might not be that culture's ideal of a beautiful woman or his family's ideal, how to engage in non threatening interactions with different races if you have come from a background of suspicion-as in one has to start finding likeable people of a different race regardles of sex i.e non black women can be lovely too and can introduce you to people. I think this book is definitely for the uninitiated; those who have never come across 'swirling' blogs lke Evia Moore's Black Female Interracial Marriage or even the co-author's Beyong Black & White. It's a place to start but I found it lacking some depth or stopping just shy of getting to the answers to some relevant questions-I guess that's what the blogs are for! But i thank thank authors for taking the time to educate ethnic women about their choices in life and this is important
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Five Stars
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 16 October 2015Verified Purchase
Very good book and contains a lot of useful information.
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Ruru
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Four Stars
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 2 February 2015Verified Purchase
loved it!
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M-Hélène
5.0 out of 5 stars
Excellent
Reviewed in France on 25 January 2019Verified Purchase
Livre bien écrit, inscrit dans son temps. Toute femme intelligente et ouverte d'esprit, qu'elle soit soit noire ou non y trouve un petit guide sympa pour vivre au mieux les relations humaines (professionnelle, amoureuse, amicale) dans une société de plus en plus élitiste, mondialisée et biensur métissée.

Dani
1.0 out of 5 stars
Didn't do what the title said
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 22 February 2013Verified Purchase
I bought the book because I date outside of my race and thought this book would cover some of the issues regarding mixed couples. But the whole book is just telling you why you should date outside your race and in my opinion the authors seem to have a problem with black men. I got the impression they hate black men and have been very badly hurt by them.
I'm a mixed race woman but class myself as black and have dated white men for years so I didn't need anyone telling me why I should, and I suspect that anyone with intentions to buy the book also doesn't need anyone telling them why they should date outside their race. Especially in the manor these women did.
Her " Guess who's coming to dinner moment" didn't even cover what was said between her and her husband or how they resolved their problems. It was so vague and didn't cover anymore than her advert about the book.
The book didn't teach anyone who's already comfortable dating outside their race anything.
Also the whole way through the book these women go on and on and on and on and on and on about how society and black men have made black women seem unattractive, disgusting etc. It's awful and they do it to put us down and see them (the writers) as our answer to feeling better about ourselves. Well I've always known any man would be lucky to have me, but after the book I questioned my own beauty! Only for a minute though :) This book is dangerous to an insecure and weak minded individual and should be avoided.
The book should really be called " Black women, don't date black men because they don't like you anyway and have nothing you offer"
I binned it!
I'm a mixed race woman but class myself as black and have dated white men for years so I didn't need anyone telling me why I should, and I suspect that anyone with intentions to buy the book also doesn't need anyone telling them why they should date outside their race. Especially in the manor these women did.
Her " Guess who's coming to dinner moment" didn't even cover what was said between her and her husband or how they resolved their problems. It was so vague and didn't cover anymore than her advert about the book.
The book didn't teach anyone who's already comfortable dating outside their race anything.
Also the whole way through the book these women go on and on and on and on and on and on about how society and black men have made black women seem unattractive, disgusting etc. It's awful and they do it to put us down and see them (the writers) as our answer to feeling better about ourselves. Well I've always known any man would be lucky to have me, but after the book I questioned my own beauty! Only for a minute though :) This book is dangerous to an insecure and weak minded individual and should be avoided.
The book should really be called " Black women, don't date black men because they don't like you anyway and have nothing you offer"
I binned it!
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