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More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory Paperback – 1 September 2014
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Can you love more than one person? Have multiple romantic partners, without jealousy or cheating? Absolutely! Polyamorous people have been paving the way, through trial and painful error. Now there’s the new book More Than Two: A practical guide to ethical polyamory to help you find your own way.
- Print length496 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherThorntree Press
- Publication date1 September 2014
- Dimensions15.24 x 3.3 x 22.86 cm
- ISBN-100991399706
- ISBN-13978-0991399703
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"This book is going to be an Event. It will immediately rank right at the top of the 36 nonfiction books about polyamory published in the last 30 years, and with its depth, insight and intelligence. I think it could break out into wider mainstream attention."-- "Polyamory in the News"
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There's more than one way to love more than one person. With 50,000 copies sold, More Than Two has shined a light on a generation's growing appetite for safe, responsible alternatives to monogamy. Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert color their research with personal commentary wrought from lived experience, fusing instructional explanations with hard-won wisdom. Their successes and failures, heartbreakingly recollected, compose a roadmap equally invaluable to novice and veteran alike. Polyamory has its personal and interpersonal struggles. How does trust and transparency in relationships work where one or more are actively seeking sex or romantic companionship from outside the current relationships? How do we voice feelings of insecurity and jealousy without unintentionally obstructing our partner's other relationships? More Than Two is a manual for addressing the obstacles, philosophical and mundane, that come up in the course of imagining a life that gives you the love and companionship you need.
About the Author
Eve Rickert began living polyamorously in 2008. The mistakes and hard lessons she’s learned along the way have informed her writing, with which she hopes to educate others on how to engage in polyamory with integrity, compassion, and courage. Franklin Veaux has been writing about polyamory since 1996 and has been nonmonogamous his whole life―learning the hard way how not to do things. He has multiple partners and writes about everything from relationship ethics to transhumanism to computer security.
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- Publisher : Thorntree Press; 1st edition (1 September 2014)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 496 pages
- ISBN-10 : 0991399706
- ISBN-13 : 978-0991399703
- Dimensions : 15.24 x 3.3 x 22.86 cm
- Best Sellers Rank: 25,081 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- 44 in Sociology of Marriage & Family (Books)
- 393 in Love & Romance (Books)
- 2,749 in Parenting & Family
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About the author

I'm a Gen X, queer, solo polyamorous, relationship anarchist, neurodivergent cis woman living on unceded W̱SÁNEĆ and Lekwungen territory on the west coast of the place currently known as Canada. I am the curator of the More Than Two Essentials series and the nonmonogamy resource site morethantwo . ca, the founder and publisher of Thornapple Press, and the founder and mastermind of the science communications firm Talk Science to Me.
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Chapter Overview:
Defining Polyamory: The book starts with a clear and inclusive definition of polyamory, debunking common misconceptions and highlighting the fundamental principles of ethical non-monogamy.
Communication and Consent: This chapter emphasizes the importance of open, honest, and compassionate communication in polyamorous relationships. It offers practical strategies for effective communication, negotiating boundaries, and obtaining enthusiastic consent.
Jealousy and Insecurity: One of the most challenging aspects of polyamory is dealing with jealousy and insecurity. The authors provide a deep understanding of these emotions and offer strategies for managing and transforming them into opportunities for personal growth and relationship strengthening.
Time Management and Prioritization: With multiple partners, time management becomes crucial. This chapter offers insightful advice on managing schedules, setting priorities, and finding balance in relationships, work, and personal life.
Relationship Negotiation: Building and maintaining healthy polyamorous relationships require ongoing negotiation. The book provides tools and frameworks for negotiating agreements, addressing conflicts, and navigating power dynamics within relationships.
Solo Polyamory and Relationship Anarchy: The authors discuss different relationship styles, including solo polyamory and relationship anarchy, offering guidance on how to embrace these approaches and create fulfilling connections.
Coming Out as Polyamorous: For individuals considering coming out about their polyamorous lifestyle, this chapter provides guidance on the process, dealing with societal biases, and finding support within their communities.
Polyamory and Parenting: This chapter explores the intersection of polyamory and parenting, addressing the unique challenges and opportunities for individuals who have children or are considering having children within a polyamorous context.
Building and Nurturing a Network: The authors emphasize the importance of building a supportive community of friends, partners, and allies. They provide guidance on finding like-minded individuals, creating chosen families, and developing a network of emotional support.
Moving Forward: The final chapter offers practical advice on personal growth, self-reflection, and evolving within polyamorous relationships. It encourages readers to continue learning, adapting, and striving for ethical and fulfilling connections.
Key Strengths:
Comprehensive and Practical: "More Than Two" covers a wide range of topics, providing a comprehensive understanding of polyamory and its various nuances. The authors offer practical advice, tools, and exercises that readers can immediately implement in their own relationships.
Empathy and Personal Experiences: Veaux and Rickert draw from their personal experiences, sharing anecdotes and case studies that make the book relatable and engaging. Their empathetic approach fosters a sense of understanding and validation for readers who may be navigating similar situations.
Inclusivity and Diversity: The book embraces diversity and inclusivity by acknowledging different relationship structures, sexual orientations, gender identities, and cultural backgrounds. This inclusivity makes it accessible and relevant to a wide audience.
Well-Structured and Organized: Each chapter is well-structured, with clear headings, subheadings, and bullet points that aid comprehension and facilitate easy reference. The book's organization allows readers to focus on
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