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"Full of hopefulness and promise...this book is a perfect blend of inspiration and encouragement. Toni's engaging teaching style shares traditional Buddhist wisdom in a format that is accessible to all readers."--The Huffington Post
"How does one face a chronic illness? In 2001 law professor Bernhard became sick from a virus that no doctor has been able to treat. Faced with ongoing disabling symptoms, forced to give up her profession, and unable to take part in most of the activities she loves, Bernhard has dug into the roots of the Buddhism she once studied intensively, looking for resources to cope with such devastating loss. She clearly explains how such Buddhist principles as the four noble truths, impermanence, no-self, and dependent origination help her cope with limited energy and frequent enforced solitude. No longer able to meditate formally, Bernhard describes a set of easy mental practices, drawn from her own daily experiences as well as vipassana (insight meditation), Zen koans, Tibetan Buddhist compassion exercises, and the "inquiry" technique of author Byron Katie, a practice for working with thoughts. Bernhard's applications of Buddhism are sound and her insights gentle and honest; others may take heart from her determination to use the Buddha's timeless wisdom to ease the mental suffering brought about by unrelieved physical illness."----Publishers Weekly
"If you want to better understand how to deal with a chronic illness, or you are the caregiver for someone who is chronically ill, read How to be Sick."--The Caregiver's Voice
"Toni Bernhard's book, How To Be Sick--A Buddhist's Guide for the Chronically Ill and Their Caregivers, is an invitation to gently set aside the fear and the fight in order to truly live. It is based on principles of Buddhism, which she carefully applies to her own chronic and at times debilitating illness. She offers a different perspective on illness and wellness, suggesting the two need not be mutually exclusive."--Psychology Today
"A immensely wise book. Health psychology has been poisoned by the view that the best way to approach illness is through a muscular, militant resistance. This books shows otherwise. Bernhard reveals how letting go, surrendering, and putting the ego aside yield insights and fulfillment even in the presence of illness. This is a major contribution."--Larry Dossey, MD, author of Healing Words
"An inspiring and instructive guide for coping with a chronic condition or life-threatening illness but it is much more than that. Each chapter is about unpacking the highest truth in the lowest places of our lives. The book is entitled How To Be Sick but I found that it's really about how to live."--Jim Palmer, Author of Divine Nobodies, and Wide Open Spaces
"An inspiring work"--Joseph Goldstein, author of A Heart Full of Peace
"Beautiful, heartfelt, and immensely courageous. Truly worth reading."--Sharon Salzberg, author of Lovingkindness
"This book could easily be called "How to Be Well." Toni Bernhard's hard-won wisdom dealing with chronic illness teaches us how to be kind to ourselves, to counter negative thoughts about our life and our health, and to live fully in the present--neither regretting the past nor fearing the future. Who among us couldn't use these life-affirming skills? Bravo!"--Susan Milstrey Wells, author of A Delicate Balance: Living Successfully with Chronic Illness
"You don't have to be sick to benefit from the advice in this book. This is a book on how to live fully."--Joy Selak, author of You Don't LOOK Sick! --This text refers to the paperback edition.
"How does one face a chronic illness? In 2001 law professor Bernhard became sick from a virus that no doctor has been able to treat. Faced with ongoing disabling symptoms, forced to give up her profession, and unable to take part in most of the activities she loves, Bernhard has dug into the roots of the Buddhism she once studied intensively, looking for resources to cope with such devastating loss. She clearly explains how such Buddhist principles as the four noble truths, impermanence, no-self, and dependent origination help her cope with limited energy and frequent enforced solitude. No longer able to meditate formally, Bernhard describes a set of easy mental practices, drawn from her own daily experiences as well as vipassana (insight meditation), Zen koans, Tibetan Buddhist compassion exercises, and the "inquiry" technique of author Byron Katie, a practice for working with thoughts. Bernhard's applications of Buddhism are sound and her insights gentle and honest; others may take heart from her determination to use the Buddha's timeless wisdom to ease the mental suffering brought about by unrelieved physical illness."----Publishers Weekly
"If you want to better understand how to deal with a chronic illness, or you are the caregiver for someone who is chronically ill, read How to be Sick."--The Caregiver's Voice
"Toni Bernhard's book, How To Be Sick--A Buddhist's Guide for the Chronically Ill and Their Caregivers, is an invitation to gently set aside the fear and the fight in order to truly live. It is based on principles of Buddhism, which she carefully applies to her own chronic and at times debilitating illness. She offers a different perspective on illness and wellness, suggesting the two need not be mutually exclusive."--Psychology Today
"A immensely wise book. Health psychology has been poisoned by the view that the best way to approach illness is through a muscular, militant resistance. This books shows otherwise. Bernhard reveals how letting go, surrendering, and putting the ego aside yield insights and fulfillment even in the presence of illness. This is a major contribution."--Larry Dossey, MD, author of Healing Words
"An inspiring and instructive guide for coping with a chronic condition or life-threatening illness but it is much more than that. Each chapter is about unpacking the highest truth in the lowest places of our lives. The book is entitled How To Be Sick but I found that it's really about how to live."--Jim Palmer, Author of Divine Nobodies, and Wide Open Spaces
"An inspiring work"--Joseph Goldstein, author of A Heart Full of Peace
"Beautiful, heartfelt, and immensely courageous. Truly worth reading."--Sharon Salzberg, author of Lovingkindness
"This book could easily be called "How to Be Well." Toni Bernhard's hard-won wisdom dealing with chronic illness teaches us how to be kind to ourselves, to counter negative thoughts about our life and our health, and to live fully in the present--neither regretting the past nor fearing the future. Who among us couldn't use these life-affirming skills? Bravo!"--Susan Milstrey Wells, author of A Delicate Balance: Living Successfully with Chronic Illness
"You don't have to be sick to benefit from the advice in this book. This is a book on how to live fully."--Joy Selak, author of You Don't LOOK Sick! --This text refers to the paperback edition.
About the Author
Sylvia Boorstein is the author of many well-known books, including It's Easier Than You Think, Funny, You Don't Look Buddhist, and Don't Just Do Something, Sit There. She lives in Geyserville, California.
--This text refers to the paperback edition.
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- ASIN : B07CL5Q4Z4
- Publisher : Wisdom Publications; Revised, Updated edition (25 September 2018)
- Language : English
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- Print length : 196 pages
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Chris
1.0 out of 5 stars
I had high hopes but the book is like many others
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 26 January 2020Verified Purchase
Despite my rating, the book has a beautiful message delivered with compassion. The reason I scored one star only is that it is important to look at the circumstances of the author, and for that I will simply refer to her own content: she has financial security, a husband at hand 24/7, a full support network through friends and family, has had a fulfilling career and many happy holidays. Those are many ingredients to be grateful for. Unfortunately many with chronic health conditions have not had those opportunities. Please know I'm not saying those are faults, of course not. But it means many people won't be able to relate. Also some of the teachings will work in her case, but allow me to say: telling someone 'anything can happen at any time' when you suffer from anxiety, do not have financial security and a husband/wife 24/7 in a comfortable home, and that advice as presented in the book, can send you even deeper into difficult mental health. A good example of this is when the author explains her husband planned to go on a month meditation. After he left she was alone, hurt her ankle, and toughed it up until day 4. Then called her husband who had to give up his project to attend to her. It's easier to be 'lettting go' when you have help at hand like the author. My view is that some of the teachings in the book may be negative to people who don't have the kind of help and support the author has. I find some of the teachings have been delivered in a slight amateurish way, which will work if you have a 'safety net' in you life. Many chronically ill people would have had to cope alone. Having said all of that, Toni spreads a message of love and compassion, but this doesn't preclude being careful around the more vulnerable readers.
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WildAtHeart
5.0 out of 5 stars
Really, really helpful positive book for those with chronic illness
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 1 April 2016Verified Purchase
This is a brilliant little book, practical, easy to read and understand, and inspiring. I am not a practicing Buddhist but found the Buddhist practices she describes in the book really helpful, simple to assimilate, and made so much sense. I have been suffering chronic ill health for ten years, and whilst searching for cures and struggling to come to terms with the progression of the condition, it has dawned on me that so much of the suffering attached to the illness is mental, and that changing my reactions, beliefs and desires around it might actually help to alleviate the suffering.
When faced with loss (of mobility, career, social life etc) she suggests seeing the thing that has been lost to have been something that existed for a certain number of years. I love this. We will all lose everything eventually, nothing lasts for ever.
There is also a chapter on The Work of Byron Katie, so not entirely Buddhist practice.
Toni Bernhard's wisdom has come through difficult experience and practice, it is not sentimental or off with the fairies, but just has a ring of truth and authenticity to it that shines from the pages.
When faced with loss (of mobility, career, social life etc) she suggests seeing the thing that has been lost to have been something that existed for a certain number of years. I love this. We will all lose everything eventually, nothing lasts for ever.
There is also a chapter on The Work of Byron Katie, so not entirely Buddhist practice.
Toni Bernhard's wisdom has come through difficult experience and practice, it is not sentimental or off with the fairies, but just has a ring of truth and authenticity to it that shines from the pages.
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Allan Cowie
5.0 out of 5 stars
Very helpful
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 9 September 2020Verified Purchase
Having similar symptoms post covid i was keen to dip into this. I enjoy Tonis style and it was easy to read and relate to a difficult illness that turned her world upside down.
I found many great tips (especially at the back of the book) and use them on a daily basis. You don't have to be buddhist to get something out of it but it helps.
I found many great tips (especially at the back of the book) and use them on a daily basis. You don't have to be buddhist to get something out of it but it helps.
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Charlotte
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A profoundly compassionate book
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 26 October 2014Verified Purchase
This is a beautifully written book for people who, through chronic illness, will not be their old self again, and for whom, at least for now, getting better is NOT possible. I came to this as a keen proponent of ‘mindfulness’ having been completely smitten by Vidyamala Burch’s groundbreaking book, 'Living Well with Pain and Illness'.
While this book explores Buddhist teaching in more detail than the latter, you don’t need to be a Buddhist yourself to learn from its teachings. Toni charts her own journey through ME, and in the process offers valuable lessons on acceptance (or noncontention if you prefer!) for those struggling to come to terms with a possibly life-long, fluctuating illness. A profoundly compassionate book. Highly recommended.
While this book explores Buddhist teaching in more detail than the latter, you don’t need to be a Buddhist yourself to learn from its teachings. Toni charts her own journey through ME, and in the process offers valuable lessons on acceptance (or noncontention if you prefer!) for those struggling to come to terms with a possibly life-long, fluctuating illness. A profoundly compassionate book. Highly recommended.
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Niallie
5.0 out of 5 stars
Honest, inspiring and very useful
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 30 April 2014Verified Purchase
I simply loved this book. The author does a great job of integrating her very difficult path of illness with the most useful buddhist philosophies. I was into buddhism at one point in my life but drifted away from it. What I like most about this book is how it shows how certain buddhist concepts can be used to ease your own mental suffering, in the context of a chronic illness. In fact, having read this book my interest in buddhist philosophy has been rejuvenated. And this is not because I need some kind of spiritual safety net it is more that I can see how pragmatic and helpful it can be to adopt these strategies. This is the first book in a long while that I've bought and read, then began to reread and underline. I'll be looking at the reading list at the end also to build on what i've learned through reading this book. If you have any kind of chronic illness or chronic pain, as I do, you should buy this book.
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