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Get Out of Your Own Way: Overcoming Self-Defeating Behavior Paperback – 1 February 1996

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Self-defeating behavior is the single most common reason that people seek psychotherapy. It is a poison, preventing us from achieving the love, success and happiness we want in our lives. And what really drives us crazy is feeling we have to change and not knowing how - or knowing how but being unable to stick with change. Get Out of Your Own Way is an antidote - it explains why we sabotage ourselves, going back to childhood origins of various behaviors. More important, it offers proven steps of action to transform behavior from self-defeating to life-enhancing. With anecdotes and usable insights drawn from twenty years of psychiatric clinical practice, Dr. Mark Goulston shares ideas that have helped thousands of patients overcome pain, fear, and confusion - to approach life's challenges with dignity, wisdom, courage, and even humor. By encouraging you to reflect upon your behavior - and providing practical steps toward change that you can work into your everyday life - Get Out of Your Own Way shows you how to stop being your own worst enemy - and become your own best friend.

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Mark Goulston, M.D., is a corporate consultant who works with executives, managers, and line workers to help them get out of their own way so they can realize the success that their skills, talents, and abilities deserve. His clients include Goldman Sachs, Merrill Lynch, GE, White & Case, Eli Lilly and Company, Disney, Kodak, and the FBI. He writes The Leading Edge column for Fast Company. He was selected as one of America's Top Psychiatrists for 2004-2005 by the Consumers' Research Council of America. Dr. Goulston is the author of Get Out of Your Own Way and Six Secrets of a Lasting Relationship.
Philip Goldberg, a novelist and screenwriter, has authored or coauthored sixteen books.

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Tarcherperigee; Reissue edition (1 February 1996)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Paperback ‏ : ‎ 208 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 0399519904
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0399519901
  • Reading age ‏ : ‎ 18 years and up
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 13.08 x 1.35 x 20.27 cm
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Peggy
4.0 out of 5 stars Straightforward advice to change your self-defeating behaviors.
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4.0 out of 5 stars Straightforward advice to change your self-defeating behaviors.
Reviewed in the United States on 18 September 2019
This is an easy-to-read book, with insights into how one can stop doing the things that sabotage their life (trying to change other people, being envious of others, trying to take care of everybody, procrastinating, and more). Each of the 40 specific topics are discussed fairly simply in about 3 pages which are peppered with quotes and advice. Although I didn't find much especially new in the book, I appreciated the author's straightforward counsel. As with any self-help book, the really difficultly is not in understanding what to do, but in actually implementing real change in your life. Overall, I recommend this book. Please mark if you find my review helpful. Thank you so much!
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4.0 out of 5 stars This book contains some very good advice on how your can change the way that ...
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5.0 out of 5 stars You will need to read it again and actually use it
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5.0 out of 5 stars Gute Zusammenfassung und sehr praktisch umsetzbar
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5.0 out of 5 stars Gute Zusammenfassung und sehr praktisch umsetzbar
Reviewed in Germany on 15 March 2019
Als jemand, der schon viele Bücher über Lebensoptimierung/Selbsthilfe gelesen hat, habe ich eigentlich nicht viel erwartet. Tatsächlich bringt der Autor allerdings viele Punkte, die in anderen Büchern vernachlässigt werden und erklärt Dinge, die man eigentlich weiß aber trotzdem nicht umsetzt, mit Fallbeispielen. Er analysiert die Verhaltensweisen auch und erklärt, was hinter ihnen steckt, was in der Suche nach Strategien, diese Verhalten nicht mehr zu zeigen, sehr hilfreich ist.
Sehr gut gefallen hat mir auch der klare Aufbau mit guter Struktur.
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