It is surprising how our insecurities can rule our lives. Because we are not accomplished in something, we feel we are inadequate in all aspects of life. Its not true!! It just means we lack experience, or that one thing we are not good at is nullified by all the awesome things we are good at. My point: We have to be happy with ourselves, through our own eyes. Not how we believe other people perceive us. Read the book: then let me know if you agree with me.