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"This book is the definitive guide to having your marriage and eating other people too. The Ethical Slut made me the ethical slut I am today, and I am so proud! --Margaret Cho, comedian and author of I m the One That I Want
The Ethical Slut is one of the most useful relationship books you could ever read, no matter what your lifestyle choices. It s chock-full of great information about communication, jealousy, asking for what you want, and maintaining a relationship with integrity. An absolute masterpiece and a must-read! --Annie Sprinkle, PhD, sexologist and author of Dr. Sprinkle's Spectacular Sex
Many people wish for and dream of a wider world sexually and live out their lives unable to find the courage to explore. This book is a thoughtful, practical, and loving look at that exploration. --David Crosby, musician and author of Since Then
The Ethical Slut, in this new and expanded edition, is the definitive guide for creating and sustaining all conscious relationships Aipolyamorous, open, alternative, and monogamous. Don t enter into another relationship without it! --Barbara Carrellas, author of Urban Tantra
Dossie and Janet s blend of good humor and forthright honesty makes for some of the best writing I have found on sexually complicated relationships and blended family options. Engaging, disarming, forthright this is the book for those of us still brave enough to make the ethically complex choices. --Dorothy Allison, author of Bastard Out of Carolina
A useful guidebook for radical relationship travelers . . . experienced counsel to those on the polysexual frontier. --Ryam Nearing, Loving More magazine
A post-graduate course in ethical relationships of every stripe. The authors pull no punches and are totally outrageous. . . . You ll never be bored. --Stan Dale, DHS, founder of the Human Awareness Institute
Frank, funny, and full of practical advice . . . life-saving validation, empathy, and plenty of insider tips from the experienced big sisters you probably weren t fortunate enough to have. --Deborah Anapol, PhD, author of Polyamory: The New Love without Limits"

-This book is the definitive guide to having your marriage and eating other people too. The Ethical Slut made me the ethical slut I am today, and I am so proud!---Margaret Cho, comedian and author of I'm the One That I Want
-The Ethical Slut is one of the most useful relationship books you could ever read, no matter what your lifestyle choices. It''s chock-full of great information about communication, jealousy, asking for what you want, and maintaining a relationship with integrity. An absolute masterpiece and a must-read!---Annie Sprinkle, PhD, sexologist and author of Dr. Sprinkle's Spectacular Sex
-Many people wish for and dream of a wider world sexually and live out their lives unable to find the courage to explore. This book is a thoughtful, practical, and loving look at that exploration.---David Crosby, musician and author of Since Then
-The Ethical Slut, in this new and expanded edition, is the definitive guide for creating and sustaining all conscious relationships'Aipolyamorous, open, alternative, and monogamous. Don't enter into another relationship without it!---Barbara Carrellas, author of Urban Tantra
-Dossie and Janet's blend of good humor and forthright honesty makes for some of the best writing I have found on sexually complicated relationships and blended family options. Engaging, disarming, forthright' this is the book for those of us still brave enough to make the ethically complex choices.- --Dorothy Allison, author of Bastard Out of Carolina
-A useful guidebook for radical relationship travelers . . . experienced counsel to those on the polysexual frontier.- --Ryam Nearing, Loving More magazine
-A post-graduate course in ethical relationships of every stripe. The authors pull no punches and are totally outrageous. . . . You'll never be bored.- --Stan Dale, DHS, founder of the Human Awareness Institute
-Frank, funny, and full of practical advice . . . life-saving validation, empathy, and plenty of insider tips from the experienced big sisters you probably weren't fortunate enough to have.- --Deborah Anapol, PhD, author of Polyamory: The New Love without Limits



"This book is the definitive guide to having your marriage and eating other people too. The Ethical Slut made me the ethical slut I am today, and I am so proud!"
--Margaret Cho, comedian and author of I'm the One That I Want

"The Ethical Slut is one of the most useful relationship books you could ever read, no matter what your lifestyle choices. It''s chock-full of great information about communication, jealousy, asking for what you want, and maintaining a relationship with integrity. An absolute masterpiece and a must-read!"
--Annie Sprinkle, PhD, sexologist and author of Dr. Sprinkle's Spectacular Sex

"Many people wish for and dream of a wider world sexually and live out their lives unable to find the courage to explore. This book is a thoughtful, practical, and loving look at that exploration."
--David Crosby, musician and author of Since Then

"The Ethical Slut, in this new and expanded edition, is the definitive guide for creating and sustaining all conscious relationships'Aipolyamorous, open, alternative, and monogamous. Don't enter into another relationship without it!"
--Barbara Carrellas, author of Urban Tantra

"Dossie and Janet's blend of good humor and forthright honesty makes for some of the best writing I have found on sexually complicated relationships and blended family options. Engaging, disarming, forthright' this is the book for those of us still brave enough to make the ethically complex choices."
--Dorothy Allison, author of Bastard Out of Carolina

"A useful guidebook for radical relationship travelers . . . experienced counsel to those on the polysexual frontier."
--Ryam Nearing, Loving More magazine

"A post-graduate course in ethical relationships of every stripe. The authors pull no punches and are totally outrageous. . . . You'll never be bored."
--Stan Dale, DHS, founder of the Human Awareness Institute

"Frank, funny, and full of practical advice . . . life-saving validation, empathy, and plenty of insider tips from the experienced big sisters you probably weren't fortunate enough to have."
--Deborah Anapol, PhD, author of Polyamory: The New Love without Limits

About the Author

JANET W. HARDY is the author of more than 10 books and founder of Greenery Press, a San Francisco Bay Area book publisher specializing in sexually adventurous books. She swore off monogamy in 1987.

THE AUTHOR SCOOP

Do you eat your vegetables?
Yes, but I'd rather steal your dessert.

Have any good pet stories?
My dear Amy - a gigantic shaggy lab/poodle mix who went to doggie heaven last summer - is still the stuff of legend in San Francisco's alt-sex scene. One evening, she wandered into the room during a bondage demo: a sweetie of ours was modeling a spreadeagle pose. Amy took one look at her beloved auntie and immediately flopped down next to her on her back, all four legs spread out in the identical pose, as the room dissolved in hysterics and Auntie sat up, rubbing her wrists indignantly, and sputtered, "Upstaged by a fucking dog!"

Are you "six degrees of separation" away from anyone famous?
Distantly related to Clement C. Moore, author of The Night Before Christmas.

Do you have a scar anywhere on your body? How did you get it?
A stylized elephant branded on my right calf, put there by Fakir Musafar. Elephants are large, smart and matriarchal - hence, my totem.

What was your favorite birthday?
Ah, this is a good one... my 35th, the year my two main squeezes at the time took a cabin at Sea Ranch for my birthday and we spent the weekend mushroom-hunting, binge-eating and fucking.

Name a favorite dish that your mother used to make.
"Israeli salad," which she learned to make when she was trapshooting on the American team in the Maccabiah Games, the Jewish olympics. A chopped salad made with tomatoes, cukes, hard-boiled eggs, bell peppers, etc., and tossed with olive oil and lemon juice.

What is your favorite thing about being an author?
Spelunking in my own brain.

DOSSIE EASTON is a licensed marriage and family therapist specializing in alternative sexualities and open relationships. She is the author of four other books. She lives in the San Francisco Bay Area and has been an ethical slut since 1969.

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