This is an unusual one to review. It’s a very good story and grabbed my heart strings emotionally especially regarding the stories of the two lots of three kids who had been seemingly abandoned by their respective parents. Interestingly, in both situations there didn’t appear to be any mention of the father of the kids. Ferguson’s perspectives and insights into both families was tremendously well portrayed, especially for a debut author.
Further, Ferguson does a brilliant job with the depth of character she brings regarding her two leads: Cassie Everson and Jett Bentley. It was fascinating reading their struggles of becoming instant parents and Ferguson uses good self-deprecating humour interspersed with lots of sincerity to develop both Cassie and Jett. My admiration for both of them grew throughout the story not simply because of their positive response to the kids being thrust upon them but their maturity and willingness to discover the joys and struggles of a life that had radically changed in an instant.
What I struggled with though was the lack of Cassie and Jett being together. We hear both perspectives via alternate chapters, but the couple don’t really spend much time together at all. And even though it’s easy to understand their unwillingness to share their newfound ‘attachments’ to the other, it got tiresome after a while and was a little inconsistent with the rest of the authentic character development we experience in the rest of the story.
Star, the eldest child of the six, was a standout backup character as was Bree, Cassie’s lifelong friend who knew when to push her friend out of her comfort zones, lovingly counsel her at the exact right moment plus simply be by her side when required. It was a beautiful picture of a lovely deep friendship.
Many of the endorsements make reference to The Dating Charade being categorised as a contemporary rom-com and you’d expect that with such a title, but both the rom and the com almost paled into the background of the relatively serious content of adoption and its ensuing impacts not just on the instant parents but the kids. In my mind it’s more a mix between contemporary fiction and contemporary romance.
I’m so pleased to have read The Dating Charade. Ferguson’s writing for a debut novelist is excellent and her character development plus gentle portrayal of the family unit breakdown and flow-on of adopted kids was very well done.
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'. . .part zany rom-com, part family drama . . .a heartening read.'--Library Journal
'Ferguson's humorous and chaotic tale will please rom-com fans.'--Publishers Weekly --This text refers to the paperback edition.
'Ferguson's humorous and chaotic tale will please rom-com fans.'--Publishers Weekly --This text refers to the paperback edition.
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Melissa Ferguson is an adjunct professor for Bible and religion at King University. She lives in the charming town of Bristol, Tennessee, with her husband, twin toddlers, and baby girl. She used to have hobbies like running and backpacking the Appalachian Trail outside her door. Now her hobbies include admiring the Appalachian Trail out her minivan window while singing "The Itsy Bitsy Spider" en route to the library.
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I was anticipating this novel with equal parts eagerness and trepidation. Eagerness, because I’m always on the lookout for a great romcom; trepidation, because there were aspects of this story that had very real potential to annoy me rather than entertain. My verdict? I’m so glad I took the risk. Not only was it an entertaining and engaging read, but there is a serious, heart-tugging story at its core.
There were two things in particular that caused my trepidation. The first was that I wondered how believable it would be for Cassie and Jett to find themselves suddenly responsible for three children each. Second was the fact that they would hide it from each other—even more so if that became the basis for the humour. You know, near misses, ridiculous explanations to cover up the truth. That kind of thing. Definitely NOT the kind of humour I’m looking for.
As it turned out, my fears were unfounded. Not only was it entirely believable (though still quite a coincidence) that Cassie and Jett suddenly found themselves the sole guardian of three children each, but the children’s situation was never made light of, despite the humorous tone to the rest of the story. In fact, the story gave me a deeper appreciation of the complicated emotions children in foster care (and the adults who become their carers) deal with.
And as for the whole hiding it from each other thing—I completely understood why they didn’t mention their respective situations to start with, and I loved that it played out from there in such an unpredictable way, including the way it changed both Cassie and Jett. I don’t want to give anything away, so I won’t say any more than that. The romance did take a back-seat at times, but I think the author stayed true to the story rather than writing to preconceived genre expectations.
My one slight criticism was that I felt the resolution was a little out of left field—almost as though there was a scene or two missing. But in all other ways, this was an excellent debut, and I’m looking forward to whatever’s next from Melissa Ferguson.
I received a copy of this novel from the publisher. This has not influenced the content of my review, which is my honest and unbiased opinion.
There were two things in particular that caused my trepidation. The first was that I wondered how believable it would be for Cassie and Jett to find themselves suddenly responsible for three children each. Second was the fact that they would hide it from each other—even more so if that became the basis for the humour. You know, near misses, ridiculous explanations to cover up the truth. That kind of thing. Definitely NOT the kind of humour I’m looking for.
As it turned out, my fears were unfounded. Not only was it entirely believable (though still quite a coincidence) that Cassie and Jett suddenly found themselves the sole guardian of three children each, but the children’s situation was never made light of, despite the humorous tone to the rest of the story. In fact, the story gave me a deeper appreciation of the complicated emotions children in foster care (and the adults who become their carers) deal with.
And as for the whole hiding it from each other thing—I completely understood why they didn’t mention their respective situations to start with, and I loved that it played out from there in such an unpredictable way, including the way it changed both Cassie and Jett. I don’t want to give anything away, so I won’t say any more than that. The romance did take a back-seat at times, but I think the author stayed true to the story rather than writing to preconceived genre expectations.
My one slight criticism was that I felt the resolution was a little out of left field—almost as though there was a scene or two missing. But in all other ways, this was an excellent debut, and I’m looking forward to whatever’s next from Melissa Ferguson.
I received a copy of this novel from the publisher. This has not influenced the content of my review, which is my honest and unbiased opinion.
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Who ends up with 6 children between two people anyway? And volunteering for them too!
I know right, that sounds completely crazy right? Especially for childless and happy me.
But seriously, I don’t understand the urge to look after kids. I’m lucky to have the urge to look after my nieces (not so much my nephews!) but they are amazing, and they come running to me whenever I come near them. So that’s easy.
What these two go through. OMG!
That’s some love dedication to those kids. And trying to date during those times? Isn’t it hard enough to date as a 30-year-old, let alone adding in the difficulty of kids?
Ok, I’ll try to be over the kids’ stuff and move onto the topics of the book.
The writing style felt like good fun. We swapped between Cassie and Jett each chapter and got involved in their thoughts, feelings and everyday actions.
It was set from like Thanksgiving (when is that BTW?) through to like Valentines Day. I don’t know if you’d classify it as a holiday romance. But it’s still got a bit of that feeling since most of the story is set in and around the Christmas period. And isn’t that all the rage at this time of the year?
Luckily it embodies everything I love about the Christmas period and just imbues you with everything you want to feel in the Christmas period. I love that feeling. But I also know it wasn’t as enrapturing as it could have been.
I know right, that sounds completely crazy right? Especially for childless and happy me.
But seriously, I don’t understand the urge to look after kids. I’m lucky to have the urge to look after my nieces (not so much my nephews!) but they are amazing, and they come running to me whenever I come near them. So that’s easy.
What these two go through. OMG!
That’s some love dedication to those kids. And trying to date during those times? Isn’t it hard enough to date as a 30-year-old, let alone adding in the difficulty of kids?
Ok, I’ll try to be over the kids’ stuff and move onto the topics of the book.
The writing style felt like good fun. We swapped between Cassie and Jett each chapter and got involved in their thoughts, feelings and everyday actions.
It was set from like Thanksgiving (when is that BTW?) through to like Valentines Day. I don’t know if you’d classify it as a holiday romance. But it’s still got a bit of that feeling since most of the story is set in and around the Christmas period. And isn’t that all the rage at this time of the year?
Luckily it embodies everything I love about the Christmas period and just imbues you with everything you want to feel in the Christmas period. I love that feeling. But I also know it wasn’t as enrapturing as it could have been.
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S Weeks
4.0 out of 5 stars
Makes you laugh-out-loud in some places and cry in others
Reviewed in Canada on 2 May 2020Verified Purchase
I was expecting a light rom-com. What I got was a lot of funny (like seriously laugh-out-loud-funny) and quite a few tears. (As an adoptive mom, this topic is close to my heart.) Ferguson tastefully handles the difficult subject of fostering and adopting and the crazy experiences that come with an instant family.

Angie
3.0 out of 5 stars
Not Quite What I Expected
Reviewed in the United States on 29 January 2020Verified Purchase
I was extremely excited when I first saw this book, but I feel like the title/description/cover/etc. didn't really prepare me for the story inside. Everything about it screams "rom-com," and while I'd had prior warning that the romance was overshadowed by the kids (which I was totally okay with, by the way), I felt like the comedy element was also overshadowed, especially near the end, by some of the serious issues involved in the kids' situations. Not that there weren't comedic moments, and plenty of them, but I was not expecting the depth of heartbreak in certain parts, and the whole thing left me feeling a little down. I definitely applaud the author for tackling realistic issues and not sugarcoating the tough things no one thinks or talks about when it comes to foster care and adoption, but it wasn't what I was expecting, which I'm sure contributed to my disappointment.
Some other things that bugged me: The sometimes absurd lengths Cassie and Jett went to to hide the kids from each other. It really got ridiculous a couple of times. But more importantly, I never got a sense of closure after their argument near the end. Were they supposed to not have meant what they were saying? Or changed their minds afterward? It was never explained or really cleared up, and I'm not sure how their relationship re-started if they didn't get something that major straightened out. There was also at least one major plot hole (or what felt like one to me) in a critical scene that really threw me for a loop.
However, even with all that, it might get a half-star bump over "I liked it" if not for a couple of scenes--one in particular--that edged across the line of what I consider appropriate. I realize that parents of small kids have to deal with things like bathroom interruptions and incomplete attire while racing to prevent catastrophe, but just because it happens doesn't mean it's appropriate for me to read--or picture, which was very hard not to do in a certain situation, especially when it was referred to over and over and played up as much as it was. I really, really don't need that image, and for that reason, I'd be hesitant to recommend it.
I know that's a lot of negatives, and a lot of it is built on faulty expectations of what exactly I was getting into when I started it. On the positive side, I thought the author did a fantastic job of creating likable and layered characters, and was very real about some tough (if a bit unexpected) issues. Even though this one wasn't quite my cup of tea, I'd be willing to try another book from her.
Content--embarrassing scenes following children walking in on their uncle in the bathroom; mentions of children's accidents; mentions of drug and alcohol abuse; mentions of abuse and neglect, and illustrations of the consequences on children; mentions of injuries, wounds, and blood; mention of a married man going on a date with another woman (immediately squelched and doesn't recur)
Some other things that bugged me: The sometimes absurd lengths Cassie and Jett went to to hide the kids from each other. It really got ridiculous a couple of times. But more importantly, I never got a sense of closure after their argument near the end. Were they supposed to not have meant what they were saying? Or changed their minds afterward? It was never explained or really cleared up, and I'm not sure how their relationship re-started if they didn't get something that major straightened out. There was also at least one major plot hole (or what felt like one to me) in a critical scene that really threw me for a loop.
However, even with all that, it might get a half-star bump over "I liked it" if not for a couple of scenes--one in particular--that edged across the line of what I consider appropriate. I realize that parents of small kids have to deal with things like bathroom interruptions and incomplete attire while racing to prevent catastrophe, but just because it happens doesn't mean it's appropriate for me to read--or picture, which was very hard not to do in a certain situation, especially when it was referred to over and over and played up as much as it was. I really, really don't need that image, and for that reason, I'd be hesitant to recommend it.
I know that's a lot of negatives, and a lot of it is built on faulty expectations of what exactly I was getting into when I started it. On the positive side, I thought the author did a fantastic job of creating likable and layered characters, and was very real about some tough (if a bit unexpected) issues. Even though this one wasn't quite my cup of tea, I'd be willing to try another book from her.
Content--embarrassing scenes following children walking in on their uncle in the bathroom; mentions of children's accidents; mentions of drug and alcohol abuse; mentions of abuse and neglect, and illustrations of the consequences on children; mentions of injuries, wounds, and blood; mention of a married man going on a date with another woman (immediately squelched and doesn't recur)
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5.0 out of 5 stars
An endearing and heartwarming story
Reviewed in the United States on 5 December 2019Verified Purchase
There are few books that I can recall staying up all night to finish. The Dating Charade is now on that short list.
After a few chapters, I became emotionally invested in the two leads and needed to know how their stories unfolded. I laughed, I cried, I swooned over the playful and witty banter.
I genuinely loved this book and will be purchasing additional copies for a number of my female friends and family members as Christmas gifts. A wonderful debut novel and I cannot wait to read Melissa Ferguson’s next!
After a few chapters, I became emotionally invested in the two leads and needed to know how their stories unfolded. I laughed, I cried, I swooned over the playful and witty banter.
I genuinely loved this book and will be purchasing additional copies for a number of my female friends and family members as Christmas gifts. A wonderful debut novel and I cannot wait to read Melissa Ferguson’s next!

5.0 out of 5 stars
An endearing and heartwarming story
Reviewed in the United States on 5 December 2019
There are few books that I can recall staying up all night to finish. The Dating Charade is now on that short list.Reviewed in the United States on 5 December 2019
After a few chapters, I became emotionally invested in the two leads and needed to know how their stories unfolded. I laughed, I cried, I swooned over the playful and witty banter.
I genuinely loved this book and will be purchasing additional copies for a number of my female friends and family members as Christmas gifts. A wonderful debut novel and I cannot wait to read Melissa Ferguson’s next!
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Sarah Philpott
5.0 out of 5 stars
A JOY of a read
Reviewed in the United States on 12 December 2019Verified Purchase
Such a JOY of a book. I literally laughed, I cried, and I was late to church because I was on the final two chapters of the book and couldn't put it down. Way to go Melissa Ferguson-- The Dating Charade is a hit!
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V. Vaught
4.0 out of 5 stars
A bit of romance, a bit of comedy, a lot of real-life
Reviewed in the United States on 7 January 2020Verified Purchase
I greatly enjoyed this book! There were moments of romance. There were moments of humor that had me laughing out loud. There were moments of real-life, sometimes hitting softly and sometimes hitting hard. Just like real-life. If you’re looking for a book to escape real life, this is not that. But if you’re looking for a good, enjoyable read that is relatable, this is the book for you. It’s clean, humorous, and real, all rolled into one. I was wishing for a few more details at the end as it felt rushed to get everything wrapped up, especially between Jett & Cassie. But otherwise I loved the book!
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