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We Are All Completely Beside Ourselves Hardcover – 30 May 2013
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- Publisher : Marian Wood Books/Putnam (30 May 2013)
- Language : English
- Hardcover : 320 pages
- ISBN-10 : 0399162097
- ISBN-13 : 978-0399162091
- Reading age : 18 years and up
- Dimensions : 15.04 x 2.92 x 21.64 cm
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Praise for We Are All Completely Beside Ourselves "A novel so readably juicy and surreptitiously smart, it deserves all the attention it can get...[Its] fresh diction and madcap plot bend the tone toward comedy, but it never mislays its solemn raison d'ètre. Monkeyshines aside, this is a story of Everyfamily in which loss engraves relationships, truth is a soulful stalker and coming-of-age means facing down the mirror, recognizing the shape-shifting notion of self."--Barbara Kingsolver, The New York Times Book Review "Fowler's interests here are in what sets humans apart from their fellow primates. Cognitive, language and memory skills all come into playful question. But the heart of the novel--and it has a big, warm, loudly beating heart throughout--is in its gradually pieced-together tale of family togetherness, disruption and reconciliation. We Are All Completely Beside Ourselves is Fowler at her best, mixing cerebral and emotional appeal together in an utterly captivating manner."--The Seattle Times "Elegantly and humorously orchestrated...Knitting together Rosemary's at times poignant, at times hilarious scraps of uncovered memories, Fowler creates a fantastical tale of raw, animalistic love."--O, The Oprah Magazine "[The novel] lies somewhere between psychological thriller, scientific theory and coming-of-age story, a seemingly untenable combination. But Fowler, through wit and mastery of her craft, handles the complexity effortlessly."--USA Today "This brave, bold, shattering novel reminds us what it means to be human, in the best and worst sense."--The Miami Herald "Rosemary's voice--vulnerable, angry, shockingly honest--is so compelling and the cast of characters, including Fern, irresistible. A fantastic novel: technically and intellectually complex, while emotionally gripping."--Kirkus (starred review) "Piquant humor, refulgent language, a canny plot rooted in real-life experiences, an irresistible narrator, threshing insights, and tender emotions--Fowler has outdone herself in this deeply inquisitive, cage-rattling novel."--Booklist (starred review) "A strong, unsettling novel...Fowler explores the depths of human emotions and delivers a tragic love story that captures our hearts."--Library Journal (starred review) "Rosemary's experience [is] a fascinating basis for insight into memory, the mind, and human development."--Publishers Weekly "In this curious, wonderfully intelligent novel, Karen Joy Fowler brings to life a most unusual family. Wonderful Fern, wonderful Rosemary! Through them we feel what it means to be a human animal."--Andrea Barrett, author of Servants of the Map and Ship Fever "Karen Joy Fowler has written the book she's always had in her to write. With all the quiet strangeness of her amazing Sarah Canary, and all the breezy wit and skill of her beloved Jane Austen Book Club, and a new, urgent gravity, she has told the story of an American family. An unusual family--but aren't all families unusual? A very American, an only-in-America family--and yet an everywhere family, whose children, parents, siblings, love one another very much, and damage one another badly. Does the love survive the damage? Will human beings survive the damage they do to the world they love so much? This is a strong, deep, sweet novel."--Ursula K. Le Guin, author of Lavinia, The Unreal and the Real, and the Earthsea Cycle "We Are All Completely Beside Ourselves is a dark cautionary tale hanging out, incognito-style, in what at first seems a traditional family narrative. It is anything but. This novel is deliciously jaunty in tone and disturbing in material. Karen Joy Fowler tells the story of how one animal--the animal of man--can simultaneously destroy and expand our notion of what is possible."--Alice Sebold, New York Times-bestselling author of The Lovely Bones and The Almost Moon "You know how people say something is incredible or unbelievable when they mean it's excellent? Well, Karen Joy Fowler's new book is excellent utterly believable and completely credible - a funny, moving, entertaining novel that is also an important and unblinking review of a shameful chapter in the history of science."--Dr. Mary Doria Russell, biological anthropologist and author of The Sparrow and Doc "It's been years since I've felt so passionate about a book. When I finished at 3 a.m., I wept, then I woke up the next morning, reread the ending, and cried all over again."--Ruth Ozeki, author of My Year of Meats and A Tale for the Time Being "This unforgettable novel is a dark and beautiful journey into the heart of a family, an exploration of the meanings of memory, a study of what it means to be 'human.' In the end the book doesn't just break your heart; it takes your heart and won't give it back."--Dan Chaon, author of Await Your Reply and Stay Awake "A funny, stingingly smart, and heartbreaking book. Among other things, it's about love, family, loss, and secrets; the acquisition and the loss of language. It's also about two sisters, Rosemary and Fern, who are unlike any other sisters you've ever met before."--Kelly Link, author of Stranger Things Happen and Pretty Monsters
About the Author
Karen Joy Fowler, a PEN/Faulkner and California Book Award winner, is the author of six novels (two of them New York Times bestsellers) and four short story collections. She has been a Dublin IMPAC nominee, and was shortlisted for the Man Booker Prize in 2014. She lives in Santa Cruz, California.
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We are all aware of animal testing in laboratories and how cruel the experiments are. The dysfunctional parents in this book made me very angry. To put a baby chimpanzee into a human family - a "twin" for their own baby girl - and then discard the animal as soon as it became too much to handle and got dangerous was disgusting. It is well documented that this happens as these animals mature. They can NEVER be "human" no matter how they are raised and it is appallingly unfair to the animal as well as the people they eventually attack. I didn't enjoy this book, I felt uncomfortable and sad throughout, especially when the chimp killed the kitten. Obviously, the main character and her brother were deeply affected by the whole experience, something which the father seemed to discard as of no account. No, I'm sorry I read it.
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I downloaded this book for our book club meeting, and it was a book that produced very lively, intense discussion and mixed reviews. When I read the book, I could appreciate the writing skills of Fowler, but struggled to complete the book, as for me (a passionate animal lover who has strong views on animal rights), the subject matter was quite distressing. I was appalled that Fern was discarded with so little effort made by the family to ensure her welfare and well- being were paramount. I am aware that large animals were used extensively for experimentation in America, but to treat Fern as part of the family, and then discard her reduced me to tears.
However, as I read on and did complete the book, the storyline brought home to me what a dysfunctional family this was. All the family in the end were psychologically damaged by the removal of Fern, especially the narrator and her brother. By the time I completed the book, I could not decide who was the most deserving of compassion.
The most interesting part of reading the book for me were the factual extracts at the end. I learnt quite a lot about how difficult it is for chimpanzees and gorillas to adjust once they are removed from a human based environment. The fact that so few live for more than a couple of years after their removal is very telling indeed. I can't say I enjoyed the book, but it has had an enormous impact upon me, and has stayed in my mind - a credit to the power of Fowler's writing.
However, as I read on and did complete the book, the storyline brought home to me what a dysfunctional family this was. All the family in the end were psychologically damaged by the removal of Fern, especially the narrator and her brother. By the time I completed the book, I could not decide who was the most deserving of compassion.
The most interesting part of reading the book for me were the factual extracts at the end. I learnt quite a lot about how difficult it is for chimpanzees and gorillas to adjust once they are removed from a human based environment. The fact that so few live for more than a couple of years after their removal is very telling indeed. I can't say I enjoyed the book, but it has had an enormous impact upon me, and has stayed in my mind - a credit to the power of Fowler's writing.
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Reviewed in Australia on 21 November 2014
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I really wanted to like this book, and to begin with I did. Little Rosemary's voice was the saving grace, before she became aware of the dynamics of her life. I thought the "reveal" was cheap. I didn't enjoy Rosemary as an adult, and she was the most 3 dimensional of all the characters. The underlying message about animal testing and research was not lost on me but as I did with Ruth Ozeki's My Year of Meats I found the vehicle for it underwhelming.
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Reviewed in Australia on 29 December 2015
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This book started off quite slowly, but I got to a certain point and couldn’t put it down.
I had heard nothing of the book until it was put forward for our book club as recommended reading. There was a short synopsis that gave nothing of the plot away and I started reading with no preconceptions.
I loved the writing style. The author has a witty sense of humour. She wrote in layers, and the story jumped seamlessly back and forth in time without being confusing. It was very skilfully crafted.
I would recommend this book to anyone who enjoys a well written cleverly woven tale. I would not recommend it to my parents, and anyone of their advanced years (mid 80’s). I would recommend it to anyone who enjoys psychology and what makes us tick, and the imperfections of our memory/mind. Because it’s a slow start, I wouldn’t recommend it to someone who gets impatient, or anyone who enjoys easy reading.
The lovely thing about e-readers is you can get a sample and if you don’t like it, no harm done. Just hope they give you a decent wack of the book, enough for you to get past the slow start.
I had heard nothing of the book until it was put forward for our book club as recommended reading. There was a short synopsis that gave nothing of the plot away and I started reading with no preconceptions.
I loved the writing style. The author has a witty sense of humour. She wrote in layers, and the story jumped seamlessly back and forth in time without being confusing. It was very skilfully crafted.
I would recommend this book to anyone who enjoys a well written cleverly woven tale. I would not recommend it to my parents, and anyone of their advanced years (mid 80’s). I would recommend it to anyone who enjoys psychology and what makes us tick, and the imperfections of our memory/mind. Because it’s a slow start, I wouldn’t recommend it to someone who gets impatient, or anyone who enjoys easy reading.
The lovely thing about e-readers is you can get a sample and if you don’t like it, no harm done. Just hope they give you a decent wack of the book, enough for you to get past the slow start.
Reviewed in Australia on 24 November 2014
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The book became arduous to finish. It seemed schizophrenic, in that the author didn't seem clear as to whether her subject matter was American college life in the 1990's, animal welfare or a dysfunctional family that gave scant thought to how raising an animal as a family member, may affect their own vulnerable biological children. It tended to childish and cavalier, and then pompous and over bearing about animal rights. The brother, who featured so large in the sisters mind and therefore in the book, was very invisible. It was difficult to discern if he was an unhinged, psychotic and obsessive man, or a genuine fighter for animal rights. I could continue. I could not recommend the book to adults. Maybe it's target is teenagers.
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Reviewed in Australia on 29 May 2016
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I had no idea going into this book what it was actually about but it only took a few pages to be totally absorbed. The book starts out like a series of overflowing thoughts from an inquisitive, intelligent, busy child's mind. It's funny, clever and often poignant. Gradually though, the story becomes more serious as the weight of the truth of the story unfolds along with all its implications on the relationships of the characters. Beautifully written, entertaining and carrying an important message on how we treat our fellow beings, human or otherwise. A highly recommended read.
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Reviewed in Australia on 28 January 2016
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I loved the idea of the story, but the book wasn't as enjoyable to read as I wished. The story itself is absorbing, but the writing a bit convoluted. Not a bad book, but not one of my favourites, even though the premise is good.
In parts it's not a pleasant read, but that's probably not the point of it either. I ended up thinking it was worth the read, but don't need to read it again.
In parts it's not a pleasant read, but that's probably not the point of it either. I ended up thinking it was worth the read, but don't need to read it again.
Reviewed in Australia on 23 October 2014
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Joy fowler has written a most surprising narrative of family life. I found the first half extremely amusing and enjoyed it thoroughly. However, once the dynamics of the family had been exposed, the fun seemed to go out of it. This does not mean it was not an intelligent view of a most unusual family, but rather a sad reminder of difference. All cannot be revealed here without spoiling the book for those who wish to read it.
I do recommend this book for those of us who are interested in all things human or otherwise.
I do recommend this book for those of us who are interested in all things human or otherwise.
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Ecowitch
3.0 out of 5 stars
I kind of feel like I should have enjoyed this more
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 3 March 2017Verified Purchase
I kind of feel like I should have enjoyed this more, particularly given the reviews it has gotten, but it didn't quite hit the spot for me. I enjoyed the style of writing and found it flowed well and at first I found the story really engrossing, not to mention the massive twist with regard to Rosemary's sister Fern. But after about three quarters of the way through I found myself losing interest a little. The story was still good but there was a bit of a sense that it was beginning to drag on a little bit. This could well just be me and I would still recommend it, just temper your expectations a little, maybe.
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A really good novel, that it's almost impossible to review without a spoiler ... but I'll try
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 26 February 2016Verified Purchase
I really liked this book, but it's hard to review without making a massive spoiler! Given the centrality of the family secret to the plot, it's impressive how long Fowler masks this from the reader. When you get there, there is an "OK, that makes sense moment", and then the story plays out well - in my view - beyond that.
The novel is based on the real experience of a number of American families, and I then wanted to learn about that history, so I read ... Well, I can't tell you, without the spoiler! So, only look this up if you've read the novel and want to read more about its theme, but I recommend the work of Roger Fouts.
"We Are All Completely Beside Ourselves" has a style that not everyone will enjoy - it feels like a young adult's narration, quirky, and a bit jerky too. That worked for me, as the narrator is a young adult whose life have been disrupted, and is trying to find some balance. I found it easy to read, and it ultimately made me really think about humanity, family, and other related subjects.
The novel is based on the real experience of a number of American families, and I then wanted to learn about that history, so I read ... Well, I can't tell you, without the spoiler! So, only look this up if you've read the novel and want to read more about its theme, but I recommend the work of Roger Fouts.
"We Are All Completely Beside Ourselves" has a style that not everyone will enjoy - it feels like a young adult's narration, quirky, and a bit jerky too. That worked for me, as the narrator is a young adult whose life have been disrupted, and is trying to find some balance. I found it easy to read, and it ultimately made me really think about humanity, family, and other related subjects.
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5.0 out of 5 stars
A very unsettling read
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 27 November 2019Verified Purchase
I'm not good at writing reviews, but feel compelled to do so with this book. It is so well researched about a subject many of us have little insight into and we must know more about it we are to become more humane in our attitudes towards other members of the animal kingdom. I'm of an age where it was good fun, as children, to watch (baby) chimps tea parties at the zoo or on television without any sensitivity or understanding of their own needs. Most young people today will be horrified to discover what used to go on, and probably still does, to some extent, in most parts of the world. All the way through this book, I have wondered if this is actually an account of a real life experience. Not that it matters either way, because it's the message conveyed which is crucial. Humans aren't the be all and end all and we forget that at our peril!
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Was that it?
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 27 January 2018Verified Purchase
I really wanted to enjoy it - well written with so much promise. But I felt the way the story was told hyped it up to something it wasn’t - I was left feeling ‘Was that it?’ - both at the point of the ‘twist’ and at the end. It lacked a story line that I was constantly waiting to discover - perhaps this book would have worked better for me if it was based on a true story, then it might have worked as a window into the storyteller’s life and you’d forgive it for not having the beginning, middle and end it kept going on about.
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Quirky and disturbing
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 26 May 2015Verified Purchase
A book definitely out of the mainstream that starts out as a conventional rite of passage told by an adult looking back on her childhood in the typical American family, with siblings, parents and grandparents. One is jerked out of this narrative by the 'twist' which has been highlighted as the main feature of the book, and which cannot be revealed as it acts as a significant spoiler. From this point onwards, the story proceeds in a more and more disturbing fashion, with the loss of siblings and the fragmentation of the family.
The author has created several memorable characters including the narrator, Rosemary, who is both endearing and irritating at the same time; her brother Lowell, idealistic and very driven; her self- introduced friend Harlow, certainly flaky, but evoking our sympathy; her mother, who struggles with depression; and her father, whose truly unpleasant character is revealed very early in the story.
I found this very disturbing book, and not just in its references to the way human beings have treated our primate brothers and sisters as merely experimental animals. It says much about modern family relationships, and the pressures that young people face in a world that is becoming more and more threatening. Karen Joy Fowler writes fluently, creating a fairytale world of the very young in counterpoint to the harsh reality of adolescent/early adult life.
The author has created several memorable characters including the narrator, Rosemary, who is both endearing and irritating at the same time; her brother Lowell, idealistic and very driven; her self- introduced friend Harlow, certainly flaky, but evoking our sympathy; her mother, who struggles with depression; and her father, whose truly unpleasant character is revealed very early in the story.
I found this very disturbing book, and not just in its references to the way human beings have treated our primate brothers and sisters as merely experimental animals. It says much about modern family relationships, and the pressures that young people face in a world that is becoming more and more threatening. Karen Joy Fowler writes fluently, creating a fairytale world of the very young in counterpoint to the harsh reality of adolescent/early adult life.
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